John Luder
Well-Known Member
Smithy, Thanks. I fear you took the wrong bait, but your empathy and sincerity are greatly appreciated and indeed, worth much. I'm being serious now.I've got 2 kids. Trust me stuff for baby is more important than Daddy's luxury wants.
Plenty of time to save a bit of money and buy jackets and non-important shit down the line.
If you can't afford the jacket you want right now I'd forget it as you've arguably got bigger priorities.
Also just a small tip from one who's been there, it can be tough with the lack of sleep and all the rest of it but enjoy it, they grow up so quickly that it's important to savour every moment of it.
Just my advice for what it's worth.
But . . .My babies are 34 and 32. Little bastards. I'm not so sure they're mine; one has a Masters, the other a JD.
Baby needs... can be literal, or, I was thinking of the expression as used during a craps game.
In particular, Abbot and Costello, when they're hustling some guys on a train, and Costello isn't supposed to know how to play, but continuously uses craps phrases, to the consternation of Abbot.
You are quite right, though. But my time has come at 69 after a 30 year career with Los Angeles County. The '65 Mustang and jackets are a start, the jackets in particular, as my wife wants us to move back east, near her family, from usually-sunny Ventura Co., CA.
As a doting parent, I wish you the best with your children. As my wife says, "The days are long, but the years are short".
Cheers, Dad.